Consent Isn’t Something You Finish Before You Begin: Thoughts on Ongoing Consent During a Scene
Most people understand that consent happens before a scene. You negotiate. You discuss limits. You establish safewords. You talk about injuries, medications, experience levels, expectations, aftercare. *Then* the scene begins. But that’s only the first chapter. The best Dominants I’ve watched, (and the best submissives I’ve had the privilege to play with), understand that consent…